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Its Impossible To Have Balance With Stubbornness

There is no real justice with stubbornness because its impossible to have balance between individuals' who are unwilling to compromise for peace sake. Consider the tug of war sports game--it is were two groups of teams hold and grip the opposite ends of a rope. Strength and resistance is an applied technique that is commonly used by both teams to pull the other team across the center boundary line or to pull the rope away from the opposing team causing them to lose balance. The first team to succeed in doing this wins.


Can you see my reasons for mentioning , 'the tug of war game' when the topic is about Stubbornness? Well, this was intentionally done so that you could see that stubbornness is ultimately a tug of war. (How?) Because stubbornness relies heavily on strength and resistance to hold fast to its stance (position/attitude) with an unknown motive against another person or cause. (Have you ever noticed that its impossible to please or understand a stubborn person, because of their unwillingness to mention their needs ; which remains unknown to you--and along with their purpose for being resistant.) But what happens if both individuals are stubborn--well both individuals' would be fighting each-other to hold on to their end of the rope. This means that both could be pulling and holding on to opposite ends (of the rope) for a number of days, months, or years, without balance or without end, or both can just drop the rope and work to compromise.



Work2Rise:- Peace is not about whose right or whose wrong, its about whats fair.

Words4-ur.Wisdom:- It is impossible to change the past, but both individuals' can consider what is needed to move forward. For its better to cooperate, then to be right.

--ALJ

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