Assess What You Need To Get What You Want
- Andrea L. Johnson
- May 8, 2017
- 2 min read
You won't get what you want until you believe what you deserve.
We all have needs but the reasons for entering or solidifying a relationship should depend on matched expectations, which means another's expectation should be equal to our own. Without matched expectations or common goals there's either going to be a personal breakdown or a breakup.
To gain further clarity about the goal and shared expectations of a relationship I've analyzed the word ' relationship' by its root. When the term
[ relationship] is broken down by its prefix word: 'relation' it refers to the way in which an association or connection is equally matched with another. And the suffix , the ending word 'ship' refers to or indicates the quality, state, dignity, character or condition belonging to something. With this newfound insight it makes it easy to see the principles behind a relationship. And in clear terms the root of the word [relationship] conveys that the state/condition of a successful relation-ship is defined by having an equally matched or shared since of character.
Thus the stability or the strength of any kind relationship is based on both individuals' being equally interested , invested, and emotionally involved in having a common goal or plan for the growth of the relationship.
Consider these questions : If you are currently involved or is considering entering a relationship: are you really in a relationship, or are you in a hardship with another? Have you already considered what you do not want or are you just accepting what is currently being offered to you. I ask you to reflect upon your own situation because until you start believing in what you deserve, you won't get what you need.
Work2Rise: You have to assess what you need, to get what you want.
Words4-ur.Wisdom: Choose someone on the same level as your expectations because without an equal level there's going to either be a personal breakdown or breakup. See the truth as a breakthrough and think twice about your involvement with another, because their behavior will often reflect upon your image.
--ALJ
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